As a new school year begins, teachers enthusiastically create group chats to keep parents updated and involved. It’s a thoughtful gesture—a modern tool meant to foster clear communication, mutual support, and a collaborative environment for the benefit of the children.
In many cases, the teacher regularly opens conversations with polite greetings:
"Good morning, parents!"
"Thank you for your support!"
"Have a great day ahead!"
And yet, despite the teacher’s consistent courtesy, some parents remain silent. No reply. No greeting. No thank you. Just passive observation.
At first glance, this might seem trivial—a small detail not worth overthinking. But as parents, our actions carry far more weight than we often realize, especially in public spaces like a parent-teacher chat group.
Our Behavior Reflects on Our Children
Children are natural imitators. What they see from us shapes their behavior far more than what they are told. Courtesy, respect, and gratitude are not just abstract concepts—they’re habits that children learn by watching us.
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If parents acknowledge greetings with warmth, children learn the value of acknowledgment.
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If parents show gratitude, children learn the importance of appreciation.
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If parents ignore polite messages, children subtly absorb indifference as normal.
Respect is taught not by command, but by consistent demonstration.
The School is a Community, Not Just a Service
The parent group chat isn't merely a notice board—it is part of a larger school community. Like any healthy community, mutual respect sustains harmony.
When a teacher takes time to politely greet parents, even while juggling lesson plans, student needs, and administrative tasks, it reflects their commitment to fostering a warm and welcoming environment.
Responding with even a simple “Good morning!” or “Thank you!” reinforces this positive atmosphere. It strengthens the unspoken partnership between parents and teachers—a partnership vital for a child's holistic development.
Ignoring these gestures may seem harmless but over time, it cultivates distance, coldness, and entitlement.
Courtesy Is a Mirror of Discipline
Many parents emphasize discipline at home, but often forget that discipline isn't just about homework, chores, or following rules—it also includes emotional discipline:
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The discipline to be kind even when busy.
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The discipline to reply courteously even when stressed.
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The discipline to be present and responsive.
By replying politely to a teacher’s message, we’re not just being nice—we’re practicing discipline. And this discipline models what we expect from our children in school: respect for authority, appreciation for others, and basic human kindness.
Small Gestures, Big Lessons
Children who grow up in homes where "please," "thank you," "good morning," and "I appreciate it" are common phrases develop an intrinsic sense of empathy and social grace.
They:
✅ Build healthier relationships.
✅ Communicate better with peers and adults.
✅ Become more cooperative in classrooms.
✅ Display leadership rooted in respect.
These simple daily courtesies aren’t just manners—they are life skills.
The Normalization of Indifference
In today’s fast-paced, digital world, it’s easy to dismiss online courtesy as unnecessary. Many might think, “It’s just a group chat. Who cares if I reply or not?” But this normalization of indifference gradually erodes social sensitivity.
When parents normalize ignoring polite greetings:
❌ It weakens the sense of community.
❌ It undervalues the teacher's efforts.
❌ It indirectly signals children that courtesy is optional.
Online spaces require just as much respect as face-to-face interactions.
The Teacher's Effort Deserves Reciprocity
Let’s not forget: teachers are human too.
They spend countless hours educating our children, managing classrooms, and guiding young minds through challenges. The simple act of extending a greeting in the parent chat is part of their continuous effort to create open lines of communication.
By reciprocating with basic courtesy, parents affirm the teacher’s role, encouraging them to remain motivated, engaged, and appreciated.
A simple “Thank you for the update, Ma'am!” can mean a lot after a long, exhausting day for any educator.
Leading by Example Builds a Culture of Respect
When parents actively participate with respect and gratitude, it naturally encourages other parents to follow. It creates a ripple effect that strengthens the entire school community.
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New parents feel more welcomed.
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Teachers feel supported.
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Children witness the importance of kindness.
And when children observe adults behaving respectfully toward one another, it fosters their own ability to communicate with empathy and dignity.
Respect Online Is Still Respect
Let’s not underestimate the power of small digital interactions. Whether it’s a classroom, office, or community group chat, respect remains fundamental.
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Greet back.
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Say thank you.
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Acknowledge the effort.
These are not grand acts, but they leave a lasting imprint—not just on teachers or fellow parents, but most importantly, on our children.
Final Thought: Parents, The Mirror Never Lies
At the end of the day, our children will not just listen to what we say—they will mirror who we are.
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If we want polite children, we must be polite parents.
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If we want respectful students, we must show respect to teachers.
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If we want responsible citizens, we must model accountability.
We lead by example, even in the smallest moments.
So next time your child’s teacher sends that morning greeting in the parent group chat, take the extra two seconds to reply.
Because respect starts with us.
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